I was told in a rather snarky (critical, cutting, testy) way today by an acquaintance, that my blog was nothing but gossip. Well, that is OK if someone thinks my blog is gossip. Sticks and stones and that old saying, you know. My blog is special to me and has been for over 6 years. I refer to it as my online diary, and even though it may be only gossip to some, to me it is not. So, here it is, straight from me to you, if you don’t like it, don’t read it. Just sayin.’
There now, I bet you all are thinking, is this our little always nice Beth writing this post or is this an impostor? Nah, it is me saying exactly what I am thinking. Comment anyone??
Beth
Excuse me! Gossip! I don't think so. I love your blog and I agree with you....if someone doesn't like my blog they can feel free to quit reading it. Our blogs are exactly that OUR blogs. We should feel free to air our opinions, express our thoughts, and pretty much post what we feel led to post. You go girl!
ReplyDeleteSome people are so unhappy with their lives they have nothing to do put try to put someone down. Your blog is just fine. I look forward to it and don't you dare let this person cause you any upset at all.
ReplyDeleteOMG, What a RUDE person to say that to you in that manner especially. That really makes me mad! What an insensitive, arrogant, imbicile! I hope whoever it was reads this blog today and then goes on their merry way never to bother you again. Grrr!
ReplyDeleteIt never ceases to amaze me how rude some people can be. When I started my blog I told a few friends about it and the first thing a friend said was "what if I don't like what you are writing , can I write a negative comment?" I was floored that that was the first thing she thought about. It never occurred to her that she might actually like it. Don't worry about the haters Beth. You have a great blog and no it is NOT gossip. The next time she says something along those lines just look at her and say "now what made you say somthing like that?" and then say nothing more. Usually that kind of shocks them into thinking that they put their foot in their big mouths!
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Although I don't comment all the time Beth. I learned who you are and what your really like from the Spaces. Some people will never be happy and if your a success they have to make some thing it. Rude never...critical , cutting and testy...that isn't who your are. A gossip oh my gosh!! This your blog and you can say what choose. People amaze me...how stupid they can be!! I agree with your if they don't like it don't read it...:)) Love you dear friend!!
ReplyDeleteHow anyone could consider this gossip is beyond me. I agree totally...if they don't like it don't read it. Guess it takes all kinds...
ReplyDeleteI was surprise to heard that someone said your blogs is a gossip, I think you are very GOOD BLOGGER which you write about your day by days things.
ReplyDeleteI was told Blogger means everyday thing:-)
Don't take noticed Beth, just let's a go that nuisance your friend and keeps what you are doing everyday Beth.
Great post!
Please take care!
Just about anything could be labelled 'gossip' - it never entered my head that your blog was gossipy. Now I have to examine my own stuff!!
ReplyDeleteThis blog is not gossip. This person may be jealous of you. Anyhow, what we blog about is our everyday stuff. I agree that she shouldn't read it if she doesn't like it. You go girl!
ReplyDeleteI'm a fairly recent follower but I have never heard you say a harsh word about anyone! Even when you don't feel well or are frustrated, you don't even sound cranky. Geez!
ReplyDeleteI agree. It is your blog. If somebody doesn't like it, don't read it, for goodness sake.
Consider the source. The only way I'd ever give it a second thought is if the remark came from someone I regarded highly and truly valued their opinion. And, even then, you should follow your own heart and ignore the naysayers. I love your blog! Carry on, I say! Carry on! :):)
I can't believe how hurtful and rude people can be. I guess the person who thought your blog was only gossip must be interested in your gossip because it appears this person read your blog at least once.
ReplyDeleteI love your blog. You love your blog. Others love your blog. Keep on blogging and ignore that unhappy person who is not supportive.
That was very rude. Besides look at all of the responses you get from those of us who enjoy your blogs. This person has no need to read it. Wish you could disconnect her from your list. I have seen nothing on your blog that resembles gossip in any way. Gossip is maliciousness against others.Your blog is caring and sharing and helps us to realyze we are not alone. We have friends with similar cares and concerns. Keep it up. bertieblue
ReplyDeleteI could not agree MORE!!!!!!!!! Twin, there is NO truth WHATSOEVER to that statement! NONE and all of us and you know it.
ReplyDeleteLove you..and love your blog. DO NOT CHANGE A THING!!!
Who is it Beth? I like a piece of this person. First of all they should learn the definition of the word gossip. Don't worry about it Beth. This person sounds shallow and transparent. I've got your back Beth.
ReplyDeleteI say, give em heck Beth. I think they are jealous.
ReplyDeleteBeth i love reading your blog & I think it is great that we have this to write what we feel...
ReplyDeleteDon't let'm get you down. hugs Doris
OMG Beth how very rude some people just can't help themselves, I shouldn't let this person him or her worry you one little tiny bit. I just love popping over here to read about your day . Looking on the left side I see you have been awarded about 6 Awards, now that tells you something. We are all routing for you, Hugs Sheila and Wile-e xx
ReplyDeleteGossip! Beth your blog is along way from being gossip, it tell of your life with your family and friends, and all of us are here for one reason, and that we like to read what you have to say, your a special Lady Beth, so dont hear what they have to say because all of us here think they are wrong
ReplyDeleteTake care
sue
LOL...
ReplyDeleteI always get a kick out of the reactions people have ...about blogs, about replies to blogs...about the cyber family we've come to love.
There are always gonna be people trying to rain on your parade. I'm with Rita--consider the source. And be compassionate if you can...everybody's going through something, and maybe it was just a bad day for this person...and you were not really the target. Maybe. :)
You keep being you. You're really good at it!!
Obviously this acquaintance of yours needs to figure out the definition of "gossip". Your blog is about YOUR life with your family and friends - memories that you wish to keep for yourself and to share with others. That's what blogs are for. If he or she doesn't like it, then he or she needs to stop coming by to read.
ReplyDeleteYour blog has inspired me to make one because yours is wonderful. You have set an example of a real life being expressed honestly and candidly. Never stop writing.
ReplyDeleteWell this has rather stopped me in my tracks and made me wonder about my blog, Just look at the number of people who have jumped to your defence, and all of them positive and supportive, I'd never get half that number of people so if this person was in my circle G*d only knows what they'd make of my musings and murmurings. Was this done via the ;net or was it face to face? Apart from the fact that it was rude and insensitive, how much did they read before they came to the conclusion?
ReplyDeleteI enjoy your blog like all the folk on here, don't you dare even think about stopping, or this wee Scottish lass will be round to sort the blasphemer out. so there!
Hi Beth - whats wrong with gossip? Well anyway it doesn't matter what your blog is the point is it's YOUR blog so it can be whatever you want it to be. As you rightly say, if someone doesn't like it they can go elsewhere, it's not like there is a shortage of material. I personally like your blog which is why I put it in my blog list. My mum always used to tell us that if we can't say something nice about something then don't say anything at all, I think that person you speak of needed a mum like mine.
ReplyDeleteOpinions are like assholes, everybody has one. (excuse my language but its the only thing seemed appropriate for this). All this person need do is exercise their God given right of freewill and choice and choose not to read your blog. Sounds like someone needs some attention?
ReplyDeleteGirl keep doing your thing and don't pay that "person" any mind.
You're 100% RIGHT! DON'T read it then! hahahaa I too conisder my blogs, "My Journal With A Voice." Keep doing what you do- ((((hugs))))
ReplyDeleteGosh some people are so narrow minded they can't see what you have created here. Your title say's it all. Is is gossip if you talk about your own day. I just don't get why people have to even leave a comment like that. Just don't come here. End of story. There are so many diary bloggers here. I think it is wonderful I feel like I know people like you better then my real life friends sometimes. What's more your do it so well. You will have such a memories later when comments even from your friends. Do as you do.
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